SMALL OR BIG HANDBAG – WHICH ONE DO YOU LIKE?
Have you ever asked yourself whether you prefer big or small handbag? Do not take into account this year’s trend of carrying a mini bag in which we can put only lipstick, credit card and only perhaps mobile. If we neglect yearly fashion trends, which is your style of carrying bag?
If we carry huge bags, how much things can we put into them, which are necessary and unnecessary? And do we load them with more additional stuff, materials for jobs we need to do?
And then, “by the way”, we do some jobs instead of our children, for example, return their books to the library; or “by the way” buy for husband some stuff for fishing because he does not work in town, etc…
These are all additional jobs we carry for our beloved because we are strong women who can lead our families and furthermore.
QUESTION TO OURSELVES – HOW STRONG WE ARE
But actually, have we really showed TO OURSELF how strong we are? Would we rather let those jobs to be done by those who need to take those jobs – children, husband or others?
If we look, from a position of carrying the big or small bags, then a small bag gives the final detail or final signature in the sense of feminity. By carrying the small bag in which you can put only necessary stuff, and in combination with high heels, the woman becomes tender and fragile. High heels slow down our steps, we are more careful, trying not to stumble and we are more concentrated on ourselves! We do not think about other problems or, not to say, world problems…
Our surroundings will respond by the same answer, and that is that they will not load us with an additional job because they see how fragile and tender we are. Maybe they will offer us some help!
SMALL BAG AND SMALL PROBLEM
I am inspired here with the book „Small bag, great freedom” by Sanja Pilic, which made me laugh from the heart. Here is the quote: „ With a small bag, actually, all the problems are instantly smaller and people around you start to appreciate you more.”
By changing our clothing and our look, we create for ourselves „new reality” and instead of hurrying and additional jobs, „to save the world around us”, we are slowing down our rhythm. That, I have to admit, is healthier and better for us! We start living a new fairytale! For ourself! And we become free! That is just the way it is!
There really is something powerful about that bag!
THINK ABOUT OUR IMPORTANCE
Not everything is for everyone, but sometimes we need to stop when we are burdened and when we are unsatisfied because we are in our routine. Stop for a while and think about it, maybe you need to change something!! Various things pop up to my mind; no, do not change big things…husband or job!! Well, depends how often it does pop up on your mind… Now, let me be grounded; what I wanted to say is that the thing you can change at least – is your handbag! With no harm to anyone! So if you are playfull enough, it is not bad to try and see, and feel this big or small handbag play! Probably you will laugh even thinking about it, not to say when you carry your little bag.
With that little gorgeous thing, we can make not only external changes in our look but in fact, we can change a lot. We can give ourselves an attitude of importance and respect. Because it all starts with ourselves. How much importance we give to ourselves, thus much the other respect us.
Although I always combine carrying small or big bags, depending on circumstance, it is true that by carrying a big bag I can not even find the necessary thing in it, because it is always full of stuff. On the other hand, when I carry a small bag (and that is sometimes!!), I feel somehow more special.
If we could prefer to carry small bags, yes, life could be easier for us, more special! Maybe I decide to carry them more, never knows!
At the end of this consideration and in my view, I could say that there is true in thought that the great strength of a woman lays in a small bag. And also, whatever bag you love to carry, feel good and be who you truly are!
Take a break, have a cup of coffee or a cake and enjoy life!
P O W ER (of women) 🙂
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|The great strength of a woman lays in a small bag!